Presence vs Autopilot

an enneagram of presence workshop series

Accommodation

11 Mar 2023


 

 
Conflict-Avoidance

13 May 2023


 

 
Avoidance Strategies

19 Aug 2023


 

 
Autonomy

04 Nov 2023


 

 
Procrastination

date TBA


 

Denial of Anger

date TBA


 

Stubbornness

date TBA


 

Fake Peace

date TBA


 

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Presence vs Autopilot

An Enneagram of Presence Workshop Series
PRESENCE IN PIVOTAL PATTERNS Interactive Workshops

These workshops focus the spotlight of presence on pivotal autopilot patterns that one can easily fall asleep in. These are 1-day workshops to bring perspective, clarity, and a little more freedom from one key pattern at a time.  

In these workshops we explore a few things that influence us in keeping those patterns running. These may be internal or external influences that we are often blind to or have felt powerless to change. We look at the consequences of those patterns (eg. accommodation / conflict-avoidance etc.), the impact (healthy and unhealthy) on ourselves and others, the strategy and hidden agendas behind those patterns (often a blind spot), and the difference between activating those patterns from a state of presence rather than asleep on autopilot. 


 

Upcoming Workshops

(2023)

bookings closed
(for workshop 11 Mar 2023)

solo (1:1) workshop options available

A Deep Dive into the Autopilot Pattern of Accommodation

Saturday, 11 March 2023

The focus of the day, is on how we fall asleep within the pattern and strategy of  being accommodating, the consequences of that, the reasons behind that, the necessity of breaking out of the sleepwalking state within that, and how to engage the pattern in a healthy, awake manner, from a state of presence.

We take a closer look at what is normal and healthy, and the value of that. The exploration will move to how individuals are using this pattern as a way to compensate or defend against something else, and if we are asleep to that - the misunderstandings, injuries and pain that is caused.

The goal is to provide more perspective, clarity and resource for each participant, so that they may have more room to consciously navigate life-situations with or without the strategy of being accommodating, from a place of greater presence, aware of the impact of their presence. 

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bookings closed
(for workshop 13 May 2023)

solo (1:1) workshop options available

A Deep Dive into the Autopilot Pattern of Conflict-Avoidance

Saturday, 13th May 2023

The focus of this workshop is on how we fall asleep within the pattern and strategy of conflict-avoidance, the consequences of that, the reasons behind that, the necessity of breaking out of the sleepwalking state within that, and how to engage the pattern in a healthy, awake manner, from a state of presence.

We take a closer look at what is normal and healthy, and the value of that. The exploration will move to how individuals are using this pattern as a way to compensate or defend against something else, and if we are asleep to that - the misunderstandings, injuries and pain that is caused.

The goal is to provide more perspective , clarity and resource for each participant, so that they may have more room to consciously navigate life-situations with or without the strategy of conflict-avoidance, from a place of greater presence, aware of the impact of their presence. 

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A Deep Dive into the Autopilot Avoidance Strategies

Saturday, 19th August 2023

The focus of this workshop is on how we fall asleep while using default avoidance strategies to remain in our comfort zones.  Some of these strategies are so practiced, efficient and naturalised that over time they drop into our blind spot and run on autopilot, whether or not they are really necessary.

In this workshop, you will have a chance to bring awareness back to your favourite avoidance strategies, to the sensitive areas that you are using them in (ie - what are you avoiding), and bring back choice so that you can be more present going forward, with when and where these strategies are necessary and when they are not. It may be a relief and a surprise to discover that one is presently fully capable of handling certain things (eg. certain "conflicts") directly, and that avoidance is not as necessary as it once was in the past. It may also, of course be rather shocking and unnerving to realise how many things are being avoided (and what those things are) on autopilot. 

If you are signing up for the adventure that this day promises, come prepared with an open mind and be ready for the unexpected, including a little fun along the way as we travel the path of the day. 

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A Deep Dive into the Autopilot Pattern of Autonomy

Saturday, 04th November 2023

The focus of this workshop is on how we fall asleep within the pattern and strategy of being autonomous, the reasons and hidden agendas behind that as a strategy, the cost when using that inappropriately or in an unhealthy sleepwalking state,  and how to engage the pattern in a healthy, awake manner, from a state of presence.

We take a closer look at what is normal and healthy, and the value of that. The exploration will move to how individuals are using this pattern as a way to compensate or defend against something else, and if we are asleep to that - the misunderstandings, injuries and pain that is caused.

The goal is to provide more perspective , clarity and resource for each participant, so that they may have more room to consciously navigate life-situations with healthy, appropriate use of the autonomy pattern, from a place of greater presence, with awareness of the impact of their presence. 

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14h00 - 22h00 (GMT+2 South Africa)

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